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Clearing the Space

November 16, 2021 by Steve Beckow

Here I am doing what I love. And here I am serving the Mother at the same time. (1) And here I am doing what Michael asked me to do (go up along with everyone else and write about it). I’m still amazed that doing what I love could also be serving the Mother and […]

Filed Under: Breakthrough, Clearing, Completion, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Grand Motif, Invalidation/Validation, Paradigmatic Breakthrough, Peeling the Onion, Polishing the Statue, Puzzle Becomes a Picture, Reclaiming My Authority, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Steve Beckow, Taking Personal Responsibility, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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Not Out of the Woods

August 13, 2021 by Steve Beckow

I’ve been walking around triggering myself for a while now. And if I walk the trigger back, I find that I’m disappointed in myself (Mother). I’m disappointed because I reacted to some forgotten thought with irritation, anger, aggressiveness, or some negative attitude (Father). I have my Father and Mother endlessly arguing in my head. The […]

Filed Under: Balanced Adult, Character Reformation, Cycle of Abuse, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Feelings, Importance of/Humans Value the Way They Feel Above All Else, Games People Play, Grand Motif, Invalidation/Validation, Make Wrong, Polishing the Statue, Reaction Patterns, Reclaiming My Authority, Reconstructing the Deconstructed Self, Recovering from Anger, Reparenting, Resistance to Love, Scripts People Live, Steve Beckow, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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Drinking the Poison, Hoping They’ll Die – Part 2/2

August 2, 2021 by Steve Beckow

(Concluded from Part 1, yesterday.) I had such a classic example of old programming going off this morning, exactly as I was working on this article.  I have to relate it here. A friend phoned earlyish in the morning and asked me a favor which was at the limits of inconvenience. I said “no,” but […]

Filed Under: Cycle of Abuse, Emotional Challenges, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Father Hatred, Hatred, Hostility, Inner Hitler, Intergenerational Transfer, Invalidation/Validation, Recovering from Anger, Relationships, Relationships and Vasanas, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Steve Beckow, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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Drinking the Poison, Hoping They’ll Die – Part 1/2

August 1, 2021 by Steve Beckow

I’d like to make a distinction between objective fact and subjective interpretation. The worst I ever did was steal a chocolate bar. OK, a tin of rock candy too. For both of which I was caught and disciplined. That’s an objective fact. Apart from those cries for help (my father was hitting my mother), I […]

Filed Under: Cycle of Abuse, Emotional Challenges, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Father Hatred, Hostility, Inner Hitler, Intergenerational Transfer, Invalidation/Validation, Judgmentalness, Recovering from Anger, Relationships, Relationships and Vasanas, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Reparenting, Steve Beckow, Steve's Experiences, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma, Wounded Child Consciousness State

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Blossom Goodchild: My Turn!

January 28, 2021 by Steve Beckow

 

Filed Under: Blossom Goodchild, Cognitive Dissonance, Emotional Challenges, Federation of Light, Invalidation/Validation, Reclaiming My Authority

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A Lifetime’s Humiliation Coming Up

August 31, 2020 by Steve Beckow

I’d like to illustrate here the application of the upset clearing process to a really-tough vasana (or core issue). (1) I’m going to raise to awareness a feeling that’s difficult to experience. It’s so strong that it’s been roasting me alive for three days now. Constant Comment may be gone but my vasanas live! A […]

Filed Under: Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Feelings, Importance of/Humans Value the Way They Feel Above All Else, How I See Myself, Humiliation, Invalidation/Validation, Masks/Constructed Self, Peeling the Onion, Relationships and Vasanas, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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The Next Step for Me

July 29, 2020 by Steve Beckow

I seem to be in a process of emergence. As I move forward in it, I bump into major roadblocks again and again. I’m bumping into one now. I’m not surprised that it’s come up. The minute one takes a position, up comes the opposition. I’ve taken a position, “no more global small talk – […]

Filed Under: Experiencing the Vasana Completely, How I See Myself, Intergenerational Transfer, Invalidation/Validation, Peeling the Onion, Reclaiming My Authority, Recovering from Anger, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Steve Beckow, Steve's Experiences, Trust/Mistrust, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma, Wounded Child Consciousness State

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Getting Out of My Own Way

July 2, 2020 by Steve Beckow

My life is a workshop in awareness. My agreement is to remain aware of myself. My process involves observing, noticing, and sharing. Viewed from a cultural-historical standpoint, my notes are an Ascension ethnography – a biography or narrative of one person’s slow and gradual, and sometimes sudden, Ascension process. Right now, I’m noticing the impact […]

Filed Under: Adult Consciousness State, Awareness as a Path, Balanced Adult, Character Reformation, Clearing, Competence, Confidence, Course Correction, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Grief, Invalidation/Validation, Masks/Constructed Self, Paradigmatic Breakthrough, Peeling the Onion, Personal Growth, Polishing the Statue, Reconstructing the Deconstructed Self, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Reparenting, Self-Importance, Self-Serving Bias, Steve Beckow, Steve's Experiences, Taking Personal Responsibility, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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Not Elegant, Just Workable

July 1, 2020 by Steve Beckow

I was saying earlier that I regarded this as a time of Deep Cleansing. (1) However that works, I personally find that deep issues are arising. I’m now following the deep despondency I’ve felt in the background of my consciousness for what feels like all my life. And at last I’m connecting with an utter […]

Filed Under: Adult Consciousness State, Awareness as a Path, Balanced Adult, Character Reformation, Cleansing/Purification, Clearing, Completion, Course Correction, Creating Our Reality with our Thoughts, Creative Dissociation, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Emotional Challenges, Experiencing the Vasana Completely, Invalidation/Validation, Masks/Constructed Self, Paradigmatic Breakthrough, Peeling the Onion, Personal Growth, Polishing the Statue, Reconstructing the Deconstructed Self, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Removing Limitations, Reparenting, Social Vasanas/Collective Trauma, Steve Beckow, Upset Clearing Process, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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Resolving the Dissonance: Finding Love for the Service-to-Self Polarized

April 26, 2020 by Lin Steiner

On April 17th, 2020, Magenta Pixie posted a video outlining 3 steps necessary to release ourselves from the dark agenda as we move into unity consciousness 1) Learn about, and acknowledge, the abuses that have taken place and integrate the visceral and emotional reactions that will likely manifest. 2) Reclaim our rightful place as universal […]

Filed Under: Awareness as a Path, Cognitive Dissonance, Golden Age of Gaia, Invalidation/Validation, Paradigmatic Breakthrough, Personal Growth, Puzzle Becomes a Picture, Reclaiming My Authority, Relationships and Vasanas, Releasing the Old Paradigm and Embracing the New, Saying "No", Self-Mastery, Setting Boundaries, Taking Personal Responsibility

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Anael: Directing Your Love and Healing Energy to Help People

March 28, 2020 by Steve Beckow

Anael has given me permission to post her share from Suzi’s Forum. (https://goldenageofgaia.com/forums-home/.) In it she’s sharing or revealing herself, which is a freeing thing to do. (The truth will set you free.) This is exactly what I was hoping would happen on the Forum. I have an idea to propose to you for directing […]

Filed Under: Cleansing/Purification, Course Correction, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Emotional Challenges, Guest Writer, Healing, Heart, How I See Myself, Invalidation/Validation, Love/Ocean of Love/Love in Action, Peeling the Onion, Reclaiming My Authority

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What’s Behind Making Myself Right and Others Wrong?

October 20, 2019 by Steve Beckow

Pre-scheduled I’m trying to get to the bottom of the Third-Dimensional practice of making ourselves right and others wrong. From my own experience, this practice is transcended when we find ourselves in the higher-dimensional love characteristic of the Fifth Dimension and higher. In the Third Dimension, our vibrations are too dense to bring that kind […]

Filed Under: Critical Parent Consciousness State, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Emotional Challenges, Grand Motif, Invalidation/Validation, Judgments, Make Wrong

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Archaeological Dig into Strong Desire

July 10, 2019 by Steve Beckow

I have (and I wonder if we have as well) many urgent needs, strong desires that I serve endlessly – and without question. An example would be a strong desire for affirmation that’s authentic and not manipulative. I was criticized as a child at the very time when a son wants a father to be […]

Filed Under: Abiding Interest/Strong Desire/Felt Need, Breakthrough, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Invalidation/Validation, Puzzle Becomes a Picture, Reparenting, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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The Driver of a Team of Stallions

June 12, 2019 by Steve Beckow

In the course of reparenting myself, I’ve now reached the point of imagining myself as having three sides (that I want to work with). I think of them as a triumvirate. The first is Big Steve, my Adult consciousness. The second is Little Steve, my natural, pure, and innocent Child consciousness. And the third is […]

Filed Under: Adult Consciousness State, Creative Dissociation, Dissociation, Invalidation/Validation, Natural, Personal Growth, Pure and Innocent Child Consciousness, Reparenting, Self-Command, Taking Personal Responsibility

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Validating Oneself

May 23, 2019 by Steve Beckow

I wrote an article the other day and was very pleased with myself. I found myself saying, “Yay, Steve,” and then I mysteriously broke down in tears. I realized at that moment that I’d been starved of validation from my Father as a young child and instead fed a diet of invalidation. The classic criticism […]

Filed Under: Breakthrough, Deconstructing the Constructed Self/Mask, Invalidation/Validation, Removing Limitations, Taking Personal Responsibility, Vasanas/Early Childhood Trauma

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