I was talking to a young friend the other day who may be entering a new relationship. I imagined her asking me what she should look for in a relationship. I had no problem answering that question. From my personal perspective? Does he know how to listen? If he knows how to listen, and you […]
There is No Greater Gift than Listening – Vol. 2. How to Listen (Download)
I’m listening I’m so excited about this book that I’m jumping about in my seat as I post this. I’m writing a series of books on listening in the hope that this now-seemingly-neglected skill becomes a cherished practice again in our now-global society. All my life, I’ve valued listening. My soul-contract design team must have […]
There is No Greater Gift than Listening – Vol. 1. What is Listening? (Download)
Runt of the litter? I chose it! I’m so excited about this series of books that I’m jumping about in my seat as I post this. I’m writing a series on listening in the hope that this now-seemingly-neglected skill becomes a cherished practice again in our now-global society. The Source of My Interest in Listening […]
Communicate, Connect, and Correct in a Time of Restricted Movement
Because of events outside and because the Earth Alliance has asked us not to impede their movements, our sphere of activity may be restricted at some point and for an undetermined length of time. I invite us to use the time to communicate, connect, and correct anything we know about what’s happening. We’re said to […]
The Cycle of Conflict is a Relationship Killer – Part 2/2
(Concluded from Part 1, above.) To review, first, what happens in this cycle is that discussion of a matter is left until one party is ready to blow. That in itself is not a great strategy. Download Leaving the Cycle of Conflict here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Leaving-the-Cycle-of-Conflict-26.pdf Communication needs to happen sooner and on a regular basis until […]
Productive and Unproductive Communication
No or Unproductive Communication When we won’t communicate at all or communicate with blame and shame or other unproductive strategies, the other person tends to clam up. Then the issues and withholds (undelivered communications) start to build up. If nothing changes or gets better ever, the person may just one day up and leave. Someone […]
Welcoming the Divine Back into Our Lives
There are a lot of people out there who are going to be facing a need to change their minds on matters that go right to the core of identity. Let me focus on one example here. Most people adhere, without knowing it, to a paradigm called “empirical materialism.” In a nutshell, what that philosophy […]
In a World that Few Hearts Survive
“Who knows what tomorrow brings In a world few hearts survive.” Thanks to Joe Cocker and Jennifer Warnes. (1) I’d like to continue our conversation from two days ago. (2) Why do so few hearts survive? As we discussed yesterday, I think the problem is inherent in the structure of our communication in a Third-Dimensional […]