Portglenon Forest, northern Ireland,
where Michael sequestered himself
Michael Barrington, “My year as a hermit,” Broadview.org, July 21, 2025, at https://tinyurl.com/497x2kvp.
(Continued from Part 2.)
The hut had no insulation and could get bitterly cold at night. I needed not just extra blankets but also a thermal sleeping bag. I slept wearing two T-shirts and a sweatsuit. On winter mornings, I lit the gas ring to warm up the hut, just so I could function. After years in Africa, my body was simply not attuned to the Irish seasons. Working outside, I was warm enough in a heavy parka, beanie and thick gloves.
I began my hermit’s life in early February. The naked trees and the tilled land, often covered with hard frost, created a sense of peace. I enjoyed the quiet and the solitude and went to bed each day tired but content.
On day six, something happened. I was walking in a field, trying to pray the rosary, when my head seemed to explode with noise and interruptions. Gone was my new-found tranquility. I was bombarded with thoughts, images and all kinds of distractions, both holy and profane. Intuitively, I knew what I needed to do. I gathered my library of books, cassettes, magazines and articles and everything not essential and stashed them in my cell back at the monastery. I kept just two books: New Seeds of Contemplation by the 20th-century Trappist monk Thomas Merton and a French edition of L’Abandon à la Providence divine (Abandonment to Divine Providence) by the 18th-century Jesuit Jean-Pierre de Caussade, which had made such an impression on me when I was a novice.
I shared my experience with Father Kevin, who nodded and said: “God calls us to silence and solitude, and we want to fill that precious time with noise and distraction, albeit with seemingly religious and holy things.” Then he quoted Merton: “Every one of us is shadowed by an illusory person: a false self. This is the man I want myself to be, but who cannot exist, because God does not know anything about him. And to be unknown of God is altogether too much privacy.”
As my prayer life deepened, so did my self-awareness. I was acutely conscious of the presence of God in my life while realizing my body, mind and emotions were pulled in a different direction. I felt like two different people. I craved food when I wasn’t hungry; I wanted sleep when I wasn’t tired; an inner voice urged me to cut down on meditation and prayer even though my purpose was to maintain both. At times, I wondered if I was just playing at being a hermit.
Father Kevin gave me the perspective I needed. “We’re not very good at recognizing illusions, least of all the ones we cherish about ourselves. Contemplation is not and cannot be a function of this external self.” I bared my soul as we prayed together, and he gently guided me. “Prayer and love are learned in the hour when prayer becomes impossible and the heart has turned to stone,” he said one day as we discussed contemplation. And in helping me understand my call to the hermitage, he explained: “In silence, God ceases to be an object and becomes an experience.”
Days were turning into weeks and weeks into months. I had no expectations, no plans. I was simply trying to live each day. I knew I was in the right place.
And then something else happened.
It was a cold, blustery night, raining hard. I was trudging back to the hermitage after my shower. The manual work had been particularly demanding that day, and I craved sleep. With my parka zipped up to my chin, my hoodie pulled on tight and my backpack slung over my shoulder, I leaned into the driving rain. I can’t remember what was going on in my head, whether I was daydreaming, trying to pray or just grumbling to myself about the weather when an interior voice — as clear as if the person was next to me — simply said: “I am with you, Michael.”
I stopped and straightened up, riveted by the sense of this somebody, someone around me, next to me. I knew who it was. It was an old friend I had spoken to for years, but as if from a distance. Now he was here. “Jesus,” I said.
I have no idea how long I stood there in the pouring rain. I was filled with a sense of peace that I had never before experienced. Tears of joy mingled with the rain streaming down my face. Back at the hermitage in dry clothes, I just wanted to revel in the warmth of his presence. I kneeled on my prayer stool, transfixed. Meditation became contemplation as I basked in the sunshine of God’s spirit. I didn’t need any words, scripture or spiritual reading to lead me into God’s presence. I did not want to leave. But eventually, my exhausted body took over. I went to bed, wondering if this extraordinary spiritual experience would be gone by morning.
I tried to follow my usual routine, but it had all changed; the experience of my prayer time and celebrating the eucharist were different. I was simply aware of a presence that radiated love. It seemed almost to be within me, to envelop me. I didn’t want to do anything other than pray; I no longer needed my faith. God was real. God was an experience, just as Father Kevin had prophesied.
As I started my manual labour that day, clearing several ditches that had been blocked by a storm, I only had to pause for a second to be reassured I was not alone. At one point in the afternoon, when I was still removing fallen limbs and debris, a voice seemed to say: “Stop what you’re doing. I want to talk to you.” So I stopped and walked slowly up and down alongside the hedgerow, back and forth for what seemed like half an hour, locked in God’s presence. We were beyond words. My heart felt as if it was ready to burst with God’s love, the two of us simply connecting, becoming one. Only the monastery bells brought me back to earth. Although I did not feel hungry, I knew I needed to follow my schedule and fix my main meal of the day.
As I prepared my food, doubt began to enter my head. Am I having a psychological breakdown? Is this solitude getting to me? I needed to talk with Father Kevin, but that would not happen until the following afternoon.
“God works in mysterious ways; the Spirit breathes where it will,” Father Kevin counselled with his usual brevity. “Let’s just pray about it and come back in three days or before if you are troubled. Meanwhile, just follow your normal routine.”
I didn’t want to do anything except spend time in contemplation, but I did what Father Kevin suggested. “You are blessed with an experience of God, Michael, and it will change you forever if you allow it. It is powerful and vibrant, but it will not last. Only the Lord will show you when the Lord will withdraw from you, and then you will have to rely solely on your faith and your memories. That might happen in a day, a week. Only God knows. And be assured, you are not going out of your mind!”
As the seasons changed, so did my prayer life. For eight months, I was privileged to enjoy an extraordinary experience of God’s presence that was as real as the air I breathed and the land I walked. (1) But in the late fall, my meditation shifted subtly. I continued to enjoy the stillness and solitude of the hermitage, but my contemplation was no longer immediate. I didn’t feel God’s presence constantly, as I had in the early days. I began to struggle again with distractions, but understood this was a return to normal life.
Now I had to exercise the new-found faith I had been given. I felt an impetus to share my experience, a call to help others. It was a gentle whisper at first, but an unmistakable voice. I listened to it for several weeks, then one Friday, after we had shared our prayer time, Father Kevin simply announced, “I think it’s time, Michael. The Spirit is calling you back to ministry.”
I’d been in the monastery and my hermitage for almost 11 months.
Footnotes
(1) My March 13, 2015 fourth-chakra experience lasted six months as love and then it became bliss for a further three and a half months. And then it slowly ebbed away, leaving my heart just open enough that I can breathe transformative (higher-dimensional) love up from my heart on the inbreath and experience it before it passes through me to the world. It totally revives me.