by Observing Consciousness, January 17, 2025, observingconsciousness.substack.com
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Your best friend, and your worst enemy
You are listening to everything you say about yourself…
What are you telling yourself right now?
Take a moment to pause and listen… not to the chatter around you, but to the quiet, unrelenting dialogue happening inside your mind. The words you speak to yourself ripple far deeper than you might realize. In fact, your subconscious is always listening and, more importantly, it believes you.
The Power of Your Inner Voice
Renowned psychologist Carl Rogers once said, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” This isn’t just poetic philosophy, it’s a truth deeply rooted in how your brain works. Neuroscience reveals that your subconscious mind acts like a sponge, soaking up the emotional energy and tone of your self-talk. It doesn’t filter sarcasm, doubt, or self-criticism. What you tell yourself, it takes as fact.
Think about that. Every self-deprecating thought, every whispered “I’m not good enough,” becomes an instruction for how your brain operates. Neural pathways strengthen based on repetition. As neuroscientist Dr. Joe Dispenza explains, “Nerve cells that fire together wire together.” If you consistently feed your mind with negativity, you’re teaching your brain to operate from a state of fear and self-doubt.
What Does Quantum Physics Say?
Now, let’s take this a step further. Quantum studies suggest that your thoughts are not just mental phenomena, they are vibrational energy. The late Nobel Laureate Max Planck, often called the father of quantum theory, stated, “All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force. We must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligent mind.” Your thoughts are a force that shapes not only your mind but also your reality.
When you tell yourself, “I’ll never succeed,” you’re sending that energy outward and inward, influencing both your actions and how you perceive the world. But what happens when you flip the narrative? What if you begin to tell yourself, “I am capable,” or “I am deserving of love”?
Small Steps, Profound Changes
- Become Aware of Your Self-Talk: The first step to transformation is awareness. Notice the tone of your inner voice. Is it critical or nurturing? Simply observing your thoughts can interrupt negative cycles.
- Reframe the Narrative: When a negative thought arises, pause and reframe it. For instance, replace “I can’t do this” with “This is challenging, but I am learning.”
- Practice Gratitude: Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s wrong to what’s right. Neurobiologically, it activates brain regions associated with reward and bonding, reinforcing positive pathways.
- Visualize the Positive: Quantum physics teaches us the power of intention. Spend a few minutes each day visualizing yourself as the person you want to be. Imagine how you feel, how you move, how you speak.
The Ripple Effect
When you change how you speak to yourself, you change the energy you emit into the world. You become calmer, more compassionate, and resilient. And here’s the magic: As you nurture this new way of thinking, others will notice and respond in kind.
Remember, you are listening to everything you say about yourself. What are you telling yourself right now?
Take a breath, and let your next words be gentle, hopeful, and full of care. Because you deserve it.