by Nicky Hamid
https://remembersoultribe.wixsite.com/membership
If you cannot speak well of another DON’T say anything at all.
If you cannot think well of another then think of looking into their eyes when they were as a baby. There you will see “Precious Soul”. And now remind yourself of who they really are.
And when you are with others discussing another with judgement then, if you remain, be with them all and see the preciousness of their Soul (and smile to yourself), and if judgement and condemnation, sarcasm, ‘pickiness’ persists either say something or quietly get up and walk away.
Listen to your first Heart prod and act on it. Stop allowing old habits to override your Knowing.
Stand for what you believe before you fall for anything that dishonours yourself.
I So Love You.
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PS: And why am I still on this gossiping thing.
Because in my awareness I can pick up the talk and the thoughts everywhere (and so can you), and though I do not need to tune into any of it, and I allow it to pass through with a loving smile without denying its existence, nor giving it any energy.
People are particularly prone to their judgements and are looking for self-validation in these times
Be warned, you cannot hide any more, especially from yourself.
Be relieved it is the end of dishonesty, self-deception, and BS.
Be real and when you find yourself judging instead of stuffing it down, simply say “Wow mind, is this true, are you sure? What are you gaining from building yourself up by putting someone else down in your mind? I see you. I understand and now it is over and done. Thankyou for the reminder.”
When you stop judging the worth of others you become aware of how deeply you have judged your own worth.
“Above all else to thine own self be true. Then it follows as night follows day, You cannot be false to anyone.” (Shakespeare)