Robert J.R. Graham has pulled together a number of interesting extracts on the Pleiadians and their lifestyle. Especially interesting is the discussion of Pleiadian sexuality, a subject which is not often discussed,
Pleiadians
https://robertjrgraham.com/2010/09/25/pleiadians/
3rd Dimensional Pleiadians: Two arms, two legs, body, head; the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours, but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street, you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). You would notice that they’re different but wouldn’t necessarily consider them alien. That’s how similar physically and genetically they are to you.
9th Dimensional (light body) Pleiadians: We don’t display ourselves [to humans] before you’re ready- Because what happens when you view us in your physical reality is that it shatters your sense of reality, and there is no putting the genie back in the bottle there. So that’s why we wait until you’re at a point where your frequency is high enough where you can see us. -Pleiadian Collective through Wendy Kennedy
If you are in a Pleiadian civilization, the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions, they feel secure – in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality.
There are also married groups, which you have here on your world called “polyfidelity,” which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people, there are three or more. These marriage units are very loving, very connected, very committed to each other. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person; many of them do. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it’s time to move into something else.
When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it’s time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate, the mate quite often will be very hurt, will attempt to latch on to you, will show a lot of pain, etc. On your planet, however, 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed, both of you have. It’s just that one person may not be recognizing it, or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what’s really happening. This is changing now, as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth.
Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says, “This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. I feel now that it’s time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else,” there’s total understanding, total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. They recognize that it must be the time, and there is a disconnection. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives.
One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. They express their sexuality only when they’re with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian, you may feel that there’s a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. It’s because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life; it’s the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships.
They speak for themselves:
[What follows are some talks by Pleiadians to terrestrials]
Sometimes readers wonder why we Pleiadians are engaged in sharing this information. Well, we can honestly say that we have an investment in your flourishing. We believe there is great value to who you are, so we invest considerable energy in the guise of words to stimulate and stabilize you during these intense times. Our intention is to assist you to integrate and understand the galactic and solar knowledge energies so you can develop new ideas about who you are. Perhaps your realizations will create a spiritual revolution of cosmic proportions that will transform your lives and build a vital new probable world.
Now, in all truth, any quest for the development of consciousness into new territory always involves challenges; otherwise it would not be a quest. The intensification of energy at the summer solstice period serves this purpose and will activate both potential trunk lines of probabilities: fear and the abdication of thinking, and love, where the value of life and the development of your mind are pre-eminent. Now, both probabilities will become more apparent to those with eyes to see.
In order to thrive, you must truly embrace and energize the concept that your physical vehicle – the body that you occupy – is of inestimable value. You must learn how to be present in the here and now and master your capabilities in order to function in top form. Many multi-faceted opportunities await you. If you do the work, and if you learn to trust, the season ahead offers the unique occasion to consciously experience the super-intense energies and to use them to enhance your perceptions of reality.
The new perceptions hold life. They hold meaning and ease and healing. These perceptions of knowing cannot be broadcast through the media; they are only transmitted energetically, orb to orb and cell to cell. Therefore, when your every moment is occupied, and your attention is given away, you lose the opportunity to use and develop your mind.
We often remind you that one of the greatest truths about existence is that consciousness creates, and in 3D reality your thoughts, beliefs and emotions bring your world into being. Now, in this time of cosmic intensity, your thoughts, emotions and beliefs will be activated and deeply affected by energies from multidimensional and simultaneous reincarnational existences and your challenge will be to consciously manage the opening of channels of knowledge to simultaneous time. Yet the mind of your being, the spirit of your total essence, the cells of your body, the brain in your physical form, are all multidimensional all of the time. It is only the conscious you that has been conditioned to watch only one station, and therefore that is all you see.
The activations of this summer may indeed stir up fear within the controllers, intensifying the arm of Big Brother, and resulting in more regulations and control than you have ever seen regarding movements, words, ideas and perceptions. The same galactic energy will also activate a new way of perceiving reality, triggering a restructuring of both your brain and your reality. The new perceptions will allow you to know and understand the greater meaning of events – where everything is seen as part of a connected, cooperative orchestration, significantly affecting each person’s many lives.
Your world has always been watched and studied by many, many beings, each with different intentions and agendas. Yet in general, you are supported by those who understand the intricacies of cooperation. And within the intricacies of cooperation there is a point, a purpose and a dignity to the rise of control and the abuse of power. We have said it before and will say it again: when forms of consciousness choose to forget, deny, deactivate and disdain their own power to create and to know, when they lose the value of the freedom to think, then they become part of the drama, the game, so to speak, that allows them to experience existence under the apparent control and dominion of others. The lessons and issues involve fear – fear of being in charge of one’s life and fear of perceptions.
Overcoming fear of personal power is a customary procedure in the development of conscious awareness; however, the question remains: how far will you go before valuing what is innately inside? Today’s Armageddon involves a few who control the many who don’t want to think for themselves versus those who want to know, and will know, and understand and choose to heal it all. From the point of view of the simultaneous ever-expanding now, all real healing involves a compassionate reinterpretation and energetic understanding of people, places, times and events. And even though you cannot yet see this vibration, as a frequency, its essence can unlock and diffuse many potential explosions and volatile situations.
Drawing of Semjase, one of Billy Meier's Pleiadian contacts
In a highly functioning state the mind can perform as an integrated collaboration of multiple identities that are working together to cooperate and explore, shining the light of knowledge into the subconscious mind, actually welcoming it to become conscious.
The gene pool of humankind is stressed right now, and the prevailing question is: can you clean your genes? Will you be able to transmute the global shock and growing anger? A clash of beliefs and values is brewing, and because of the intensified energies, those manipulating great deeds of damage will no longer be able to control the cover-up. The potential exists for a summer of shocking scandals set to rock people to their very core and make them question, “What has become of our world? What has gone wrong with our leaders? Why are we in this position?”
Well, from our point of view, too many of you stopped valuing good honest fun. That may sound trivial, though it is not meant to be. It is a truth. Mirth, merriment, high spirits, delight, laughter and glee are all feelings that produce a very pure vibration, one that is highly sustaining. And, being that you are conscious forever, accumulating knowledge and experience in one form or another, it is best to take advantage of the opportunities at hand. Laziness will not serve you. You must compassionately reach out and empower other people, using words and energy to soothe their being. The intensity of telepathy is extremely high right now, and so is your power to seek what you want – this is the gift for mastering your mind.
When you contemplate your ethics and values, and when the debates rage, as odd as this may sound – remember your childhood. Recall precious moments of gleeful vitality and times rippling with fun and excitement, for those moments are still vital and alive and will intercede energetically and enhance your now. You all have numerous contacts with other time line realities; the trick is to pay attention to the subtleties of life. You are all naturally multidimensional, with many facets of yourself to recognize. You can develop a mind with many personalities that are all linked together: harmonious, multi-tasked, and brilliantly working with your conscious mind. And in the moment, you can know they are all there: present and cooperative and you still have the freedom to be who you are. This represents the positive side of mind control, which is owning your mind, and is the opposite of the dissociated, fragmented, tortured approach.
You can develop a mind with many personalities that are all linked together: harmonious, multi-tasked, and brilliantly working with your conscious mind.
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— Channeled by Barbara J. Marciniak
Their symbols were also at times birds or winged figures. They also used the symbol of the seven stars. Physically, and again we must generalize, they were similar in skin, hair and eye color to the Lyrans but much smaller. So, for instance, a typical Pleiadian woman would look very much like this channel in size. Now the Pleiadians had a very, very deep love of mankind. It would take too much time to explain why, but genetically they are connected to you, so often throughout history they have been drawn back to Earth in order to help humans.
Not only do they have a genetic connection but they also have an emotional connection. They always tried to nurture and protect you like a mother. Now you know that you may have two parents, a mother and a father who love you very much, but at the same time these two parents may also fight over you. Sometimes they may even manipulate you to get back at the spouse. The same thing happened with these ETs. They often, in their love for you, fought over you. Unfortunately, they also at times manipulated you.
Because the ETs often fought amongst themselves there were often territory disputes about the land and the people of Earth, and so often the Earth was divided into sections and certain ET rulers would be responsible for certain sections. It is unfortunate that a lot of the information about these times has been lost. However, some of it remains in the Sumerian texts and we will talk a little bit about that later. Before we go into the future it is important to say one thing. Ancient humankind was never a victim of these ETs. All beings create their own reality for their own purposes of learning and growth, and ancient humankind was the same way. We never like to put humans in the role of being victims. – Lyssa Royal