Serapis Bey on Taming the Ego
Channeled by Linda Dillon, Sept. 2019
Greetings, I AM Serapis Bey. I come as gently as I possibly can because my desire, my yearning, is not to overwhelm you, not to steamroll you but to embrace you, to reassure you of your balance.
Welcome to my temple. Welcome to my temple of ascension. Welcome to my home. Welcome to the blend, the balance of Alpha and Omega. It is never intended to be either/or. It is that balancing in kindness and consideration, and in the breadth of understanding of what it means to be in your mastery.
This question of ego, my beloved friend and all of my friends, is very pertinent and timely because you are progressing upon your path and you are reaching the time of what you may think of or term ‘graduation’. What is this? You have done a great job of bringing within and balancing without all aspects of your being.
And as you well know, some of those aspects that you have welcomed home have been quite petulant, upset with you…and yes, even the children have thrown temper tantrums. And I say to you, “So what? So what?” You acknowledge that you have done a good job and that you continue to proceed.
You do not halt your forward progression because there is a slight blip on the screen. Your realm of existence for eons have had what you would think of as blips on the screen. So, now there is this blip where your ego is fearful of not being in equal authority with who you are.
When I say ‘this ego’ I am talking about the troublesome companion. I am not talking about the refined balance, the mature evolved being that each of you have become. I am talking about that part that thinks they are not going to be invited to the party, and even worse, they are not going to dictate what is served at the party, and they are not going to be the star of the party.
So, what do you do in that case? Do you become the thundering god…and you say, “I won’t even invite you to the party; you are acting like a spoiled brat”…and thereby exclude them so that they can go off and raise hell?
No, my friends. You invite them and you consult with them, you embrace them and reassure that they are welcome, that they are an essential part, an element, of who you are and who you are becoming. And just like you have said to fear, or to an aspect, or to an errant part of your life, you simply say, “Welcome and I look forward to embracing you and working with you.”
Now, let me be a practical teacher… So, when you have a situation where this piece of you that we are calling ego then what you do as it raises…I won’t say its ugly head, I will say its petulant head…when it raises its head for attention, you do not need to react in terms of becoming rather aggressive and boastful. But what you do need to do is take that millisecond moment and say, “Oh, I hear your concern, and I will present that.” And that is what you do, you engage. And if it is with another individual then you are really having a three-way conversation.
And what you are doing, as the adult, is you are acting as the translator and interpreter, so that you are gleaning the information or the attention or the acknowledgment that is being sought, but at the same time you are not engaging in the behavior, the emotional behavior, that makes you feel like you have back-peddled to being a three-year-old, or a two-year-old, or a ten-year-old, or a schoolyard bully…because that is not who you are.
None is to be excluded. If there is a dictum for all of you in the new world, upon this Nova Earth to look at, it is that none are to be excluded, including parts and parcels and pieces of your sweet self. Now, when you behave in that way, particularly when it is a repeat situation, what you are also doing at the same time, my friend, is you are educating the other person that you are communicating with, or the other group that you are communicating with.
So they say to themselves, “You know the last time they were in here they seemed rather short-circuited, and temperamental, and upset, but now they are approaching me in ways that acknowledge me and what I have to offer them, so I am very glad to share my information, I am very glad to pay attention.”
So, you are creating that give and take, that balance. You are role-modeling, you are mentoring, you are teaching those in transition how a spiritually evolved ascended being actually acts, engages in conversation.
Do not forget your White Flame of Purity that burns brightly within you. Yes, you have many tools, but in terms of transmutation and transformation, this is extraordinarily useful for you.
Now, I am not suggesting that you burn down the ego, for it is part of your delightful self, the personality that you have not only developed but wanted to bring forth in this lifetime. The key here is actually burning enough…and I will help you…to get to that truth of who you want to be.
Do you wish to be a belligerent bully? No. And do you wish to be a hiding mouse? No. You wish to be present, engaged, and engaging. This is the hallmark of a Nova Being. It is to see perhaps the belligerent bully or the frightened little mouse in the other person and to say, “No, you do not need to be aggressive and you do not need to be afraid. What I offer you, what I welcome is true communion, a unity of sharing, not only of shared language but of shared heart, of the unity that builds a planet instead of tears it away.”
This has been a long time coming, my friends, and the Mother is clear, and so am I…it is time! And it does not mean that you need to come to Luxor and visit me, although I would welcome you…but all you need to do is to simply call me and I am with you to assist. Discipline is nothing but balance and clarity.
Go with my love and go in peace. Farewell