Greetings once again from the Arcturian Group.
We wish to speak of transformation, a seemingly simple topic, but one that is important to the understanding of truth.
Transformation flows through an individual when he awakens out of the dream. It manifests as the ability to “see with new eyes and hear with new ears” while in the midst of duality and separation.
Transformation allows one to recognize whatever false concepts and beliefs he may still hold and replace them with truth. It brings the ability to say: “I was wrong.”
Those unable to allow transformation, delay their Ascension into a consciousness of higher dimensional energy. Fear of change acts to support the continuation of third-dimensional concepts and beliefs.
Many who resist change are in positions as world “leaders” who equate any sort of transformation with loss – loss of their personal power and wealth. Because of their leadership positions, they often attract followers who blindly accept whatever these so called “leaders” believe, giving away personal power in the process.
You are now at the point in your spiritual journey, Dear Ones, where you must acknowledge and reclaim your innate power. Many of you have done this already, having attained this state of consciousness in other lifetimes, entering into this lifetime with this state of consciousness already in place.
Never fear to say: “Enough is enough, I no longer choose to live, act, be, or think in old outdated concepts of separation.” Some of you may have already discovered that there will be those who are offended by this. Friends may drop away, but be not afraid if this happens, Dear Ones, for energy seeks its own and will soon draw to you those of your resonance.
We speak of transformation now because you are very close to seeing transformation take place. Much is to be revealed and you must be prepared both within and without for you will be the Ones called upon to assist those in fear, unable to let go of their old and comfortable ways of understanding the world.
Mankind is no longer being allowed to lazily float from one day to the next believing that the government, the church, a parent, a friend, or society in general will take care of everything for them. You are the consciousness and thus the substance of the outer world and things are quickly changing.
It is time to claim your identity as Divine Beings who chose to learn and assist others within third dimensional energy. Allow the process. For some, allowing the process may simply mean becoming Be-ers instead of Do-ers – allowing themselves to be still and at rest, going within often while old energies surface and clear. Others may find themselves being guided to stand up and be counted in some way.
Transformation is a surrender, the ability to open oneself to change. Surrender is not the giving up of self to some unknown “pie in the sky God” concept. Spiritual surrender is the natural result of having a clear understanding of what one is surrendering to – Truth.
It begins with a strong inner drive to begin a quest for Truth which can take many many paths, but which eventually leads to discovering IT within. This process cannot be avoided for it is who you are.
There are many who “suspect” the deeper Truths but refuse to embrace them, choosing instead to believe that others more “holy” or intelligent, know more than they do. No, Dear Ones, all have the Divine Voice within, it is simply a matter of acknowledging, listening, and trusting. The time is now – Valentine’s Day!
Yes, we are aware of your customs and we join with you – for is it not a day that celebrates Love? Love is all there is, for ONE can never be divided. It is only the belief that One can be divided (separation) that has resulted in the outward manifestations of war, discord, suffering, lack, limitation etc.
Valentine’s Day celebrates the romantic/partnership facet of Divine Love. There are teachings that preach the “ungodliness” of romantic love and that in order to be “holy” you must forgo romantic connections. Nonsense, this is a part of the same teachings saying that you must suffer in order to be “holy”. These are man created beliefs with no spiritual law to support them.
However, romantic love must be understood on deeper levels if it is to “work” and this is the missing element of so many human relationships.
Attraction between two people does not always mean you are meant to marry or establish an intimate relationship with them. Attraction often occurs as the result of past life connections and frequently happens with someone you intuitively know would not be a good partner for you.
When two people with an intense past life history meet (male/male, female/female, or male/female) there can be either instant attraction or instant repulsion. Many gay couples have been together in other lifetimes as heterosexuals. Connections do not end with death, for you are consciousness, not just physical bodies.
Marriage or committed relationships often happen as the result of pre-birth choices by both parties for the purpose of resolving some unfinished past-life issues, which may or may not have began as romantic partnerships. Often those energies needing to be cleared have their origin in ancient roles lived as mother/child, father/child, friend/friend, servant/master etc.
Present-life relationships can provide an easy path in which to bring closure. This is often the case in those relationships where one or both wonder; “Why did I marry this person?”
Always look deeper, Dear Ones. There really are no accidents at this point. Look into what you are learning or meant to learn from every situation. Karmic closure can take place even if only one person desires it. If he/she is able to recognize the other as an un-awakened Divine being and also chooses to no longer live within an energy of judgement and hatred (which simply serves to feed the karmic situation) then they have reached that place of Unconditional Love and there is karmic resolution. An individual can now leave the situation if they choose, knowing that it is finished.
Sometimes two people are intensely attracted to each other on all levels, but for some reason this never unfolds into a relationship. This happens with some who choose in their pre-birth planning not to be with each other in this lifetime. If they understand that intense past-life connections and love would not allow them to seek and spiritually grow into their own awareness and power if they were together, they would be content to simply [not?] be together.
Romantic love must be rooted and grounded in real love or it is simply animal attraction, which sadly many consider to be real love. This concept of love is promoted heavily in all areas of media-film, books, TV shows, magazines, advertising, etc. and particularly on Valentine’s Day.
The wise know that sexual attraction alone is not love but is a facet of it, one of the “added” things. Sexual attraction by itself is based in the human need to propagate the species which can be accomplished without love. Intimacy based only in sexual attraction never carries the intense and deep energetic connection and fulfilment that is possible when both are of a consciousness that sees beyond appearances to the deeper realities shining through the other’s eyes.
Love relationships are never dependent upon how the other looks or dresses and it is fruitless and very human to attempt to mold someone into your concept of the perfect partner. Healthy relationships have similar energy resonance and those in them have close world views but do not necessarily think and believe exactly as each other because all are here to learn and grow according to their individual need.
Two well matched individuals – be it friends or partners – have attained similar states of consciousness. Observe those living out from un-awakened states of consciousness who enjoy relationships of fights, cheating, anger, angst, and make-ups – they are both on the same energetic wave length so to speak – it is their state of consciousness, their concept of how relationships work.
There may be a time when you are tempted to enter in to the lower-awareness level of another because of attraction and desire for this person. Although certainly allowed by free will, it can never result in the happy outcome desired but instead usually ends in heartbreak after a quick, short, intense time together. One simply cannot go backward to outgrown states of consciousness no matter how appealing doing this may seem.
Misconceptions abound regarding love and partnering. Governments, religions, families, and friends continually spew that love is only valid if it meets their often very narrow concepts. The partner must be of a certain color, gender, education, financial status, or other acceptable trait. Love is the experience of one self manifesting as the many. Love never has been and never will be dependent on mankind’s concepts.
There comes a point at which an individual no longer “needs a relationship” in order to feel complete, happy, and whole because they have attained a consciousness of spiritual wholeness and completeness. They have discovered their Twin Flame to be within, and being in relationship now becomes a personal choice.
Happy relationships only happen when each understands and accepts their own true worth and power because then there is no longer the need for outside validation. Unawareness of one’s true identity causes the un-awakened to seek their completeness from outside of themselves. “If I am married to this good looking, rich, smart person, then I must be loveable and valuable”.
Many still carry old cellular memory from times when being in a partnership may of been the only way to avoid death or starvation and this is often reflected in those who jump from one partnership to another never allowing themselves to be alone. Recognize and allow these old cellular memories to clear if you suspect them in yourselves.
As you grow stronger within, you will look back at past failed attempts at romance and laugh, saying; “Thank you, dear God, for saving me from this relationship.” even though at the time you may of been heartbroken and hurting. The human mind is programmed to world concepts of romance and sex and responds thusly until you teach it differently.
If having a life partner represents completeness for you, you will draw this to yourself without thought and struggle because it will be the natural manifestation of your state of consciousness, your realization of spiritual completeness. Being alone may represent completeness for some.
True, deep, and lasting relationships do include romance, great sex, and all that the rigid, structured, Puritan state of consciousness deemed unholy, but these are now recognized as being the added things.
We the Arcturian Group send Love, joy, fun, and awareness to you all for Valentine’s Day.
The Arcturian Group. Channelled by Marilyn Raffaele. February 14, 2015. https://www.onenessofall.com/newest.html