by Caroline Oceana Ryan
https://www.ascensiontimes.com/post/a-message-to-lightworkers-july-9-2026
This week’s message is channeled from Ascended Master Mary Magdalene, twin flame of Yeshua (Jesus of Nazareth).
COR: Lady Master Mary Magdalene, in my practice as a channeler and energy worker, I speak with many women who care deeply about their children and grandchildren.
Many of these young people are very gifted and brilliant, yet life is hard for them in some ways.
They have developmental issues, or have disabilities of one kind or another.
Most suffered trauma when small, due different forms of abuse.
The women I speak with are from all walks of life.
They are mainly over 50, and are very compassionate and empathic.
It weighs on them heavily to see younger family members dealing with difficult issues.
Some of the younger folk are paralyzed with fear about getting a job or living and working outside the house.
Some need many medications to be able to function, and sometimes even that does not help to stabilize their mental/emotional states.
Others get into trouble of one kind or another and must attend a special school or live-in facility, or they are put in prison.
I have seen this so many times over the 12 years that I have been offering channeling sessions, that this area has become a major part of the work I do.
Some of the women are ready to give up and let go of their loved one(s) as they have tried to many things to help, to no avail.
Others feel that the child or grandchild is too vulnerable to let go of, whether they are in their teens or their thirties.
If you have any insights and wisdom to share with us on this issue, kind Mother, I would be very Thankful to you!
MARY MAGDALENA: Greetings, dear ones!
I so am glad that the channeler has asked for my insights on this very serious issue. For the role of the Matriarch can be a very taxing and painful one at times.
The Feminine leader of the family is not one to rest on her laurels! She oversees much.
And until the very end of her life, she will not entertain notions that her work is ever done regarding family and community.
She oversees much of present occurrence, has visions of potential futures—and she remembers all!
It is so that many will lose heart as they pursue answers for what may heal and assist their younger loved ones.
The women often have a complex, sometimes painful soul contract with a younger relative that takes its toll over the years of caregiving and support.
In my teachings, I call all to claim their sovereignty, whether they are able to do that fully or only in part.
And so even the still-growing child or grandchild is often called to be aware of their own presence and the effects of that presence on the world, and upon those who know and love them.
It is not so that these ones are entirely without responsibility, even if they have only the capability to be responsible for themselves, and that only part of the time.
Yet these [young] ones you speak of are not wholly disabled, and that is the crux of it.
These dear ones you assist care so deeply!
Yet they live with the frustration of realizing that their Love, Wisdom, provisions, prayers, financial output, and desire for stability and normalcy in their loved ones’ lives may never be enough.
This is the paradox the Matriarch must face and live with, and it is often a painful one.
Often the shock and grief felt over a child’s illness, a young person’s errors that lead them into trouble, or a teen’s addictions or compulsions, will feel un-healable to the one who witnesses them over time.
Yet being a goddess who came here to love, the Matriarch cannot stop caring, nor stop pouring her life energy into that bottomless cup that never seems filled.
It is so, that to grant life sovereignty to the one who seems unable to claim that for themselves, feels to be useless, and even strange.
[Some may ask,] “How can anyone claim their strength, their own determining life current, when they are too unaware or troubled to do so?”
And yet, there is great power in releasing and allowing, dear ones.
Sometimes, that is the power that assures the young person that they can indeed stand on their own, and in responsible, honest, and balanced ways.
This will look different for each person whom the Matriarch has been concerned about.
For clearly, these are lives that were drawn up to live in tumult, at least for a while, and for a wide range of reasons.
Some come forth with illness, imbalances, addictions, or a proclivity for falling out with legal authorities, because there is some old story they must finish in this life, and there is no shortcut to doing so.
Some come forth with these experiences to inspire assistance in those who will help them, such as teachers, writers, social workers, healers, therapists, or family members.
Yet be clear that any one person’s role in relation to those who seem lost is never an accident!
This is decided upon before either person incarnates.
Even those who respond with violence and utter rejection of the help they are offered are nonetheless still in contract with those offering them that support.
The Matriarch is here, in part, to understand about soul contracts, and to allow them to be as they are.
This is one of the more difficult and painful areas to experience, I realize.
Many will say, “Why would I come in to be this person’s mother or aunt or grandmother, if not to offer support for them in their struggles?
“How am I not to help them?”
And the answer is not that the younger folk should not be helped.
The reply is that those very forms of help, though offered with Love and all good intention, can never be the thing by which the young person is healed or shown how to take responsibility, including self-love and self-care.
The Love of the Matriarch is sufficient to stand on its own as the blessing, whether that Love holds the answers for their loved ones, or not.
Chances are great that the answer will have to be created by that person themselves!
Even if their disabilities seem to preclude any such thing ever happening.
You are aware that though the physical therapist can guide someone to learn how to walk again after injury or illness, it is the patient who must try to set each foot forward.
It is also the person themselves who must decide, on the soul level and Earth life level, whether they want to move forward in life, or if they prefer to resonate with struggle, loss, and self-denial.
It is so that your extraterrestrial brothers and sisters are soon to join you on the planet in far more open, obvious, and helpful ways.
And they will of course desire to share wonderful technologies with you that can cure much of the difficulties described above.
Yet does each person truly desire to heal?
If they do not, this is not a desire that any helpful ET or the Matriarch, for all her Love, Wisdom, presence, and desire, can bring about.
And so, rest easy, dear ones!
Your Love is not in vain. Allow all the life they came in to live, and simply Love each one, in your family or out of it, as if they were already perfect.
Yes, even as they spew anger, and declare that no one loves or understands them.
You know that is not so. Allow them their temporary decisions and conclusions, for a great part of the beauty of this Earth is that one travels through so much that later seems impossible to have happened.
Change is constant, and never more so than on your Earth now.
All is well, dear ones!
Love and give to yourselves, as well as to others!
You too are my precious children, and I never forget you, nor cease to give Thanks for your beauty, your constancy, your Love—every moment.
And so it is!