Paramahansa Ramakrishna
The basic spiritual movement, in my view, has three phases: Discernment, Detachment, and Devotion.
Here is Sri Ramakrishna describing how all three fit together:
Sri Ramakrishna: One may enter the world after attaining discrimination and dispassion. In the ocean of the world there are six alligators: lust, anger, and so forth. But you need not fear the alligators if you smear your body with turmeric [dispassion, detachment].
Discrimination is the knowledge of what is real and what is unreal. It is the realization that God alone is the real and eternal Substance, and that all else is unreal, transitory, impermanent. And you must cultivate intense zeal for [devotion to] God. You must feel love for Him and be attracted to Him. … Yearning [strong devotion] is all you need in order to realize Him. (1) (My emphasis.]
We might recognize all three as divine qualities. They are the three that aid us the most in returning to God, which is the purpose of life.
Why is it the purpose of life?
Because when one of us realizes who we are (I am God), God meets God and for that meeting was all of this created. (2)
Therefore, to summarize, discernment is the quality that allows us to separate the unreal from the Real and ultimately realize the Real.
Detachment is detachment from everything unreal, that distracts us and takes away from our love of God.
Devotion is devotion to everything Real. Remember what Krishna said:
I am all that a man may desire
Without transgressing
The law of his nature. (3)
The universal laws themselves channel us back to that meeting of God and God.
There is an unforeseen outcome in that the more we detach from material distractions, the better we feel. Our experience of love increases, which calls devotion out of us.
And, when service is done as an act of devotion, as far as I’m aware, that completes the action. An act of devotion done as a “must do” is incomplete and does not draw the same love out of us.
Moreover, if the act is peremptory, it calls out only a lukewarm response from the other side, if angels can ever be lukewarm.
Discern, detach, and devote. Leads to life in a higher 3D than we’re living in at the moment, and higher, and higher, and higher.
Footnotes
(1) Paramahansa Ramakrishna in Nikhilananda, Swami, trans. The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna. New York: Ramakrishna-Vivekananda Center, 1978; c1942, 140.
(2) See The Purpose of Life is Enlightenment at https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Purpose-of-Life-is-Enlightenment-6.pdf
(3) Sri Krishna in Prabhavananda, Swami, and Christopher Isherwood, trans., Bhagavad-Gita. The Song of God. New York and Scarborough: New American Library, 1972; c1944., 71