by Nicky Hamid
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Concern for Children and Young People in these times of Great Change.
Stop trying to anticipate the growth of your children. Stop pre-empting where they are going and setting markers and trying to construct and live their greatest good. Stop tinkering with their lives, with their expression.
If you see a rose budding and are looking forward to its bloom, what would happen if you took the petals and gently opened them to see what was inside or to give them a quickening in their blossoming?
What you can do is water, and feed your rose bush in a balanced way which is in a way based on its present condition, but you allow the rose to do what it knows innately to do.
It is the same for our children. They are Divine Masters on a journey of experiences they are setting for themselves.
We nurture, and in the process we learn about ourselves. They are on their journey and we have the joy of sharing ours with them.
Step lightly but firmly and encourage them to do likewise.
And above all give them your Greatest Gift which is them seeing you Love Yourself through your Joy of life.
Lighten up and start dropping all the intellectualizing about children’s emotional and cognitive needs etc, etc, etc. Stop making such a big deal of everything they do and just enjoy the participation in sharing your journey with them.
They are not your show pieces.
Give them opportunities to choose and make their way by all means, but none of their decisions will be a dead end.
When you look back in love, has anything you have ever done had no value for you? Be not afraid for them.
Our children have come here without the compressed karmic overlay that we experienced. They came in uncluttered, and they can see through the BS.
And you make it so much easier for them if you can see through your own.
They are here to Dream the New Earth. Let them discover what part they can play.
Help them to dream their Dream.
There is no way any of us can conceive how they will do this. They must be allowed to discover for themselves and they will teach us new and liberated ways.
Keep your knowing of who they Truly are.
Dream your Dreamtime and live your own life with them not through them.
The greatest Gift you can give them is for You to take your own power to be happy right Now.
I So Love You