by Nicky Hamid
https://remembersoultribe.wixsite.com/membership
On Compassion (Especially for “Healers).
Being an “Empath” is a badge often worn with great pride and in feeling that you take on others baggage. However, Labels can be quite debilitating and disempowering.
When someone asks me for help let me share with you how I choose not to be an “empath” but still retaining that wonderful capacity to “walk a mile in another’s shoes” without taking on any of their pain as my own.
I am within myself, at peace. And if I were to speak of where I am at I would say to anybody that whatever I feel you are not responsible for it but I want you to know that mostly I feel good.
And when you are not feeling good please do not feel bad that I do not sympathise with you in your not feeling “goodness”, because I won’t be of much use to you. nor will I be able to feel the Truth of who you really are. So rather than empathy or sympathy what you are going to find from me is compassion.
And what is the difference between sympathy and empathy and compassion?
Empathy is giving my undivided attention to what you are saying and how you are feeling.
But I am not going to stay there for more than a moment, or feel your pain strong enough, that the same vibration that you have got going, is now within me, so we become one in our dysfunction and disconnection. That I am so there for you, it is like “I am You”. This is the “empath”, and includes its earlier companion, sympathy.
Compassion is “I see You and I Love You. And I am fully Present and in Love with Life and turned on to it and by it. And even though you are not vibrationally in that place that you deserve to be, and is in fact who You ARE, I don’t focus on the place you are in so I do not join you and you do not become my excuse for falling out of alignment.
This is stepping into Compassionate Being.
Heart Open wide in the LIGHT of who you ARE. Full Feeling is there but Mind of Being clear and fully focussed and Present with what You are, rather than what you are grappling with, through your crushed and wounded heart.
Thus I choose to stay in alignment with Source.
I stay in alignment with who I really am and I focus on you anyway because I Love You.
You see your problem, I see your resolution. You see what is wrong, I see what is better. You don’t like you, I Love you. You are judging You, I only see your Light. You are mad at the world or afraid of it, I am in Love with the world and embrace it.
We are in the same space both having very different experiences. That is what I share with you. You cannot deplete me for I will not give you my power. I desire only that you find your own.
In sharing my Presence you get to know your own.
The ‘gates’ of Unconditional Universal Love are forever open and if I Know my own field and feel my own Open Heart I am constantly choosing what I align with then I can step away from you with no withdrawal of my Lovingness
I So Love You
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PS: You are not here to “save” another nor remove the feelings they are experiencing.
You are here to share your LOVE/LIGHT Presence, your Shine.
It will lead anyone who is ready to make a move, because consciously or unconsciously they will be turned towards that same Presence within themselves.
It IS THE LAW of our own Unfolding (our Ascension).
Everlasting Love that is the LIGHT weave behind Everything.