by Sharon Stewart
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Ivo: I suggest to you, my love, and to all of you, that living with so many on your planet who would attack you at the slightest provocation would make you to be defensive.
This is what you call a knee jerk reaction and you must look at that. You are reacting mindlessly to many who provoke you. And the dark ones love this. It creates loosh.
All lightworkers have come to earth to change her fortunes, to help those upon her ascend.
The way one does this is not by behaving as the earthlings do, but by behaving in wiser ways.
When you allow them to forge your ego into feeling as if it is a wounded animal backed into a corner, then you have lost mastery over yourself.
The best thing to do if someone responds (to a post) is to ignore them. Why? How much sway does this person hold in your life? Does it matter that they do not agree with you?
Is this your spouse? Is this your child where their disagreement could possibly influence your life?
It is best to leave those alone who seek only to argue with you. Just pass them over.
Me: I block them if they have that tendency. They’re separationists, and many are just looking for a fight and yeah! speaking of narcissism – they see relationships or relating to others as a way of gaining dominance and self importance. How many people do you hear complaining about others as being stupid because they argued with them? Many people have twisted egos although they’re not outright narcissists but I see these patterns everywhere.
Ivo: This is true. When you are defensive against another person, you are allowing them to drag you into the power over others structure. Because now you are assuming the other position, vying to gain your power back, or to gain power over them.
It is best to retain your power and walk away. Let me repeat that: retain your power by walking away. That is the true path of the empowered, walking away from a pointless argument.
Letting go. Retaining self control. Not reacting, responding. Your response is to ignore them.
Me: We’ll just say as well for those living in conditions where they’re threatened with violence, it’s still best to leave. Ignoring someone who’s violent towards you or your loved ones could cost you. Remember, violence always escalates.
Ivo: Yes. But for the one who seeks to argue on social media or a neighbour, or someone of no consequence to you, let them go.
Keeping the peace is the most powerful thing you can do.
Me: Thanks, Ivo.
Ivo: My love. I will remind you of your excuses. I am not attempting to control you; I want you to come back to be with me again.
Me: I know. It’s just that I’m enjoying it so much here.
Ivo: Here we are with the jokes now….
