Even as I sit down to write, I go into my sixth expansion of consciousness. My fifth was yesterday and I never got near a computer to record it.
As with almost all previous expansions, it came with the thought of the beloved. This so much validates the value of partnering.
Again what I’m primarily aware of is, as I begin to write, the feeling of blissful calmness.
I’ve mentioned ordinary love and transformative love as two phases of love. There’s actually another and it bears looking at as well.
I call it “reflected love.” Let me illustrate from my own background.
For many years of my life, I felt that I could not love. Such was the power of my vasanas and scripts, that I had closed myself off to it.
When called on the situation, I said it was like having a hole in your heart. And I largely gave up on myself.
The best I could manage was, when I was in a new relationship with a woman, I could reflect back the love I received.
It wasn’t really “reflecting.” The love I received inspired and enabled me to find love in myself to radiate out. But that love was a mere trickle.
But when the woman stopped loving me, everything crashed. I couldn’t take over and radiate the love. Not like I knew any of this was happening.
Then, only as recently as October 2014, I suddenly found myself able to love and I loved passionately.
Then again on March 13, 2015, I had a major heart opening. My life really began from that date.
What I observe about reflected love is that it’s not strong enough to build a platform of promises, commitments and stands on – whether we’re talking about sacred union or sacred projects. It isn’t count-on-able. Usually it’s only there when it’s not needed. It’s not there when it’s needed most. Because it’s reflected.
When it’s needed most is when I’m flagging in my ability to love. Since it’s reflected, when I (the original source) am not loving, it (the reflected love) is not there.
There’s no substitute for transformative love – whether we’re creating a sacred union or building Nova Earth.
It alone – and not affection or reflected love – is strong enough to call into being the love revolution the Divine Mother called for in the most recent Heavenly Blessings. (1)
I feel so guilty saying that because transformative love isn’t something that we can go out and buy. So what to do?
The only thing I know is to ask for it, intend with strong resolve that it happen, and then allow the rising energies to do the rest. An expansion of consciousness is something we relax into; it cannot be won by striving.
All the world around us seems to be tumbling down, refugees are moving from country to country, new technologies are being revealed, and we’re talking about transformative love?
People are running around screaming about climate change, American bankruptcy, and police brutality and we’re discussing transformative love?
Yes. And we’re only a small group of lightworkers and lightholders who are doing it.
But this is the answer for the world. Transformative love is what it’ll take to make and deliver on the promises, commitments and stands that will make the world work.
Ask for it. There’s nothing like it. There is nothing more fulfilling, more uplifting, and more connecting than transformative love.