Healing Fatherhood Karma
I was having dinner at a restaurant this evening and sitting across from me was a young family with two young children, a boy and a girl. The children were well behaved and the family energy was very loving. But what got my attention was how loving, attentive, kind and patient the father was with his children. He listened to them, took time with them, paid attention to their needs, and interacted with them at every opportunity. I have been noticing how fathers interact with their children lately and realized that many fathers are resolving lifetimes of karma through how they interact with their children today.
I don’t remember many interactions with my father when I was young, my mother was the one who took care of us, she managed the household and my father went to work and washed the car (we always had a very clean car). This new generation of fathers, many of them Indigos, are resolving lifetimes of karma with their children because for many lifetimes, the male energy has been involved in destroying families and children, creating drama and mayhem, and never parenting their children. Today I see a generation of fathers who are active parents, who love their families and children and who are, many for the first time, expressing their father energy in positive ways.
As we are at a time when karma is being resolved and cleared, many of these fathers have strong karma with their wives and children. As they become highly involved parents, they are also evolving into a more loving version of themselves and are undoing lifetimes in which they were not very supportive or available to their children. The children they have today are those they may never have been able to parent in other lifetimes and they are atoning for that now by being a strong presence in their lives, in a very loving and supportive way. Many of the new generations of children need to experience the strong, loving father presence. This is why many of them have chosen to be in families where the father wants to heal his family and father karma because they readily accept and return the love he gives them.
Many of the young men I know who are or want to become fathers have strong opinions about how involved they should be with their children and they see their role as important as that of the mother, and want to be an integral part of their children’s lives, whether it is feeding them, changing diapers, pushing them in a stroller (which my father would never have done) or listening to their stories. What we are seeing is a paradigm shift in the male energy, an evolution into a more conscious, loving and present presence in the lives of children so they can experience the balanced male and female energies. I’m so happy to see this and to all of you involved, loving and karma-healing fathers out there, you are creating a paradigm shift of great importance and providing a safe environment for new generations and you are doing a wonderful job.