A version of this share on sharing was posted earlier. I’m going to repost it in light of discussions that have been occurring recently. But I’m also adding a short additional section at the beginning about sharing with others who are either new to 2012 Ascension or else don’t know about it at all. It includes how to relate to people who reject what you share.
Tell Others, but Just Enough
The galactics encourage us to communicate to others what is happening in the world:
SaLuSa: “Dear Ones, by all means send out your Light where you perceive it is most needed…. Communities will need the advice and experience of those who are understanding of what is happening. … It is time to use whatever skills you have to direct people’s energies in the right direction.” (1)
SaLuSa: “Speak when the opportunity arises, as so many are in a state of utter confusion and despair. If you feel confident of the outcome, your energy will help others and have a calming effect.” (2)
The Sirian Council of One: “Share your light, dear ones. Help spread the magnificence. Prepare for our event with a welcoming heart. Share that heart with others. Look into the eyes of another and let them know that they are safe.” (3)
Ker-On: “Those of the Light can be of immense service to others, who have little or no knowledge of the meaning of what is occurring upon Earth. Where the opportunity arises let it be known that the changes are for the good of everyone, and open their eyes to what has been taking place.” (4)
Certainly, SaLuSa says, “the time has long come when you are prompted to spread your knowledge and assist those who are awakening to the truth.” (5) The galactics “wish everyone knew of the Golden Age that is almost upon you, one that brings Love and Light and your release from the pull of the lower vibrations, an Age that is a tribute to the love and glory of God, and the Creator.” (6)
But the galactics also offer guidelines. First, according to SaLuSa, “it is recommended that you [only] help when asked.” (7)
Second, “in replying do not shock [others] by trying to feed them too much at [one] time. Slow progress is far better that allows for information to be carefully considered, and not in any way forced upon them.” (6) Over-informing can be counterproductive. “It may … cause them to ignore it all.” (8) He recommends saying just enough and no more.
“Deliver just enough so that the recipient of your knowledge may embark on a journey of his own. For whilst keeping knowledge to oneself stops flow and hinders growth….giving too much knowledge hinders growth also by not allowing discoveries and realisations to be made by the individual. If you are standing in alignment as a Wayshower, Lightworker or teacher of the new consciousness you will know how to introduce these new concepts to the unaware. Their own connection to the divine will do the rest.” (9)
Third, we are advised “to enlighten others without forcing an issue. Allow for doubt or even skepticism as the truth can make people feel uncomfortable. For some people, to have their cherished beliefs severely questioned is difficult to handle, and it takes time to come to terms with it.” (10)
Fourth, we are encouraged to remember that much information will soon be coming so it isn’t necessary to worry about people hearing. SaLuSa says:
“There will a continual stream of revelations once we can communicate with you through your media, and with those early changes you can expect a whole series of programs designed to awaken you.” (11)
Fifth, we are advised not to be discouraged if others reject what we say. Matthew warns us about resistance.
“It won’t be necessary to try to persuade anyone to believe as you do, and arguing about what is truth and what is lies isn’t part of your service either. Not all of the religious devout will be able to see the Light of the truth. Many will be hostile, and some will resort to violence to protect the ‘righteousness’ of their beliefs and self-assumed missionary roles; others will be deeply depressed and founder in confusion. It is likely that at some point Light workers will encounter ones with those varied reactions.” (12)
But SaLuSa counsels us:
“Do not be too concerned if you cannot help certain people in their understanding, as some will find the truth too overwhelming for their comprehension. At least before they leave this dimension such souls will have some knowledge of Ascension. It will find a place deep in their subconsciousness, only to be remembered when another opportunity comes along to uplift them. Your consciousness retains all experiences, to be used knowingly or not according to their value to you at the time.” (13)
Sharing Involves Communicating and Listening
I’d like to make a few additional suggestions about sharing in lightworker and starseed forums, if you’ll permit me.
Sharing involves communicating and listening. One person communicates and the other listens and, when the speaker is done and has been heard, they reverse positions.
What’s there to communicate is anything that’s there for us. The brass ring in communication is emergence; that is, stepping out of our shells and saying how things are for us.
The booby prize is telling another person how it should be for them. That will only start a brawl and does not forward the action in any way that I’m aware of.
However, listening and feeding back what we hear forwards the action.
If we’re triggered, perhaps don’t respond to another at all from that space, for a number of reasons.
First, if we’re triggered, it’s almost guaranteed that our awareness is down, especially our self-awareness. Tension and awareness vary inversely to each other.
Second, it’s almost guaranteed that our judgment is impaired.
Third, it’s almost guaranteed that our response will be offensive and lead to a feud, one that may grow and grow and take in everything, until a major falling-out results.
Is that not how we’ve done things for perhaps most of our lives? Isn’t that why things have not worked out for us if they haven’t?
If we’re reactivated by what someone says, it’s almost guaranteed that a vasana has been triggered – a behavioral pattern that’s anchored to some past event, some ancient hurt, which the other person’s unwitting statement has jiggled loose.
Given the rising energies, we can expect more and more of our vasanas to rise to the surface to be cleared, but they won’t be cleared by identifying with them, projecting them onto others, and starting a war. They’ll be further energized and we’ll become more rigid as a result.
They’ll be cleared by owning them, standing in the face of them, observing them, locating where they’re anchored to our past, and allowing them to play themselves out until they’re gone.
We’re lightworkers here, using the time together to bounce off each other, clear ourselves of our rigidities, keep abreast of what’s going on and prepare for the busy and exciting times ahead.
Our egos served their purpose when we were cavemen; they helped us stay alive and divide work into roles and tasks and so on. But they’re relics now and have lost their usefulness.
They will survive into 5D in the sense that we’ll retain individuality but they won’t survive as devices that keep us separate.
I’m biased in this area because, between communication and listening, I think the least understood skill and the one that brings the greatest benefit is listening. Getting what another says and feeding back our understanding so that the other gets that we got them. I value listening and I know that others do as well because they say so. It’s the greatest gift I can give another.
In communication, I value transparency and depth. I want you to know me deeply and I want to know you deeply as well. Shallow fights and disagreements are valued on TV and in films but in real life they lack juice. Deep sharing has juice.
So it’s my intention that this be a space for deep sharing, deep listening, deep communicating. Harmlessness, compassion, and most of all depth are what I value.
(1) SaLuSa, Feb. 18, 2011, at http://www.treeofthegoldenlight.com/First_Contact/Channeled_Messages_by_Mike_Quinsey.htm
(2) SaLuSa, Nov. 26, 2008.
(3) Message from the Sirian Council of One, posted Oct. 5, 2008, by Mark Huber, firstname.lastname@example.org.
(4) Ker-On of Venus, Oct. 3, 2008, at http://www.treeofthegoldenlight.com/First_Contact/Channeled_Messages_by_Mike_Quinsey.htm
(5) SaLuSa, Jan. 3, 2011.
(6) SaLuSa, June 18, 2010. “God” is the local ruler of this universe; the “Creator” is the Source of All.
(7) SaLuSa, May 24, 2010.
(8) SaLuSa, Nov. 4, 2009.
(9) The White-Winged Collective Consciousness of Nine, “What does Earth Ascension really mean?” through Magenta Pixie, Oct. 4, 2008, at http://www.lightworkers.org/content/48417/alignment-earth-ascension.
(11) SaLuSa, May 24, 2010.
(12) Matthew’s Message, May 23, 2006, at http://www.matthewbooks.com/mattsmessage.htm
(13) SaLuSa, Feb. 18, 2009.